CSBD Hope For Healing Conference 2025
Meet Our Emcee: Navigating the Conference with Humor, Honesty & Hope
MDiv, Author, Speaker, Podcast Host
Nate Larkin is the founder of the Samson Society and the author of Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood. A graduate of St. Lawrence University and Princeton Theological Seminary, Nate spent years battling a hidden struggle with porn and sex addiction before finally finding freedom in a 12-step recovery group in 1998. In 2004, Nate and a few of his recovery friends started the Samson Society, a mutual aid society for Christian men seeking honesty, connection, and support. What began as a small gathering has since grown into a global movement, helping thousands of men around the world with more than 600 local groups and thousands of men attending daily online meetings at samsonsociety.com.
Nate is a highly sought-after speaker, known for his engaging, humorous, and deeply honest storytelling. He has spoken at conferences, colleges, and retreats across the country, bringing hope and practical wisdom to those navigating addiction, faith, and recovery. He also co-hosts The Pirate Monk Podcast and The Positive Sobriety Podcast, engaging in raw, meaningful conversations about addiction, faith, and recovery. Nate and his wife, Allie, recently celebrated 46 years of marriage and live in Mt. Pleasant, Tennessee. At the CSBD Hope for Healing Conference, Nate will serve as emcee, speaker, and panelist, bringing his unique blend of wisdom, authenticity, and encouragement to guide discussionsand inspire attendees.
Renew & Reconnect: Experts Leading Restorative Activities
MSW, Founder of Kali Connection Therapy
Discover the power of Kali Connection Therapy (KCT), a revolutionary somatic approach designed to regulate the nervous system, release trauma, and promote deep healing. Created by Mara Giovanni, MSW, KCT merges neuroscience with movement, engaging participants in interactive, play-based exercises that feel fun but are backed by science. KCT blends bilateral stimulation, cooperative movement, and attunement to create a safe and engaging way to promote healing.
Trauma isn’t just about what happened—it’s how the body gets stuck in survival responses like hypervigilance or shutdown. KCT interrupts these patterns by engaging the nervous system directly, allowing for a shift from disconnection to regulation.
Through guided exercises that incorporate co-regulation, play, and self-defense techniques, participants build resilience, enhance their sense of safety, and reclaim control over their emotional and physical responses.
KCT is accessible to all fitness levels and provides a fun yet deeply transformative experience. Whether you are seeking relief from stress, trauma, or disconnection, this session offers practical tools to restore balance, foster attuned relationships, and create lasting nervous system regulation. Come experience how movement, connection, and play can transform your healing journey!
Guiding The Journey: The Experts Leading the Conversation
PhD, CCPS-S, CPC-S, Author
Dr. Barbara Steffens has been at the forefront of supporting partners of individuals with sexual addiction since 1999, dedicating her career to advancing understanding, treatment, and advocacy for those affected by betrayal trauma. She is the co-author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal (2009; 2021), a groundbreaking book that has reshaped approaches to partner trauma and offered hope and healing for countless individuals and couples.
In 2011, Dr. Steffens co-founded APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists), a nonprofit organization devoted to professional training, public education, research, and advocacy focused on the impact of relational and betrayal trauma. As a recognized expert, Dr. Steffens has spoken at national and international conferences, sharing her insights on the traumatic impact of sexual addiction disclosure on partners and educating professionals on compassionate, trauma-informed care.
SUBJECT: EARLY RECOVERY AFTER DISCOVERY - AFTER THE LIFE QUAKE
The discovery of compulsive sexual behavior can be a traumatic and confusing time for both the betrayed partner and the individual struggling. In this insightful session, we’ll explore common reactions, trauma responses, and experiences following initial discovery, with a focus on healing for both individuals in the relationship. Attendees will learn about trauma triggers, setting healthy boundaries, and finding the right support to foster recovery. Whether you're early in the healing process or supporting others, this session provides valuable tools, guidance, and a dedicated Q&A to address your specific questions and needs.
SUBJECT: COMING SOON
Join us for an enlightening session with Dr. Barbara Steffens, co-founded APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists), as she shares critical components to understanding and working through partner betrayal trauma. This is a unique opportunity to learn from one of the leading experts in the field. Dr. Barbara Steffens brings a wealth of knowledge and compassion to the field. Her dedication to advocating for trauma-informed treatment models has significantly benefited both individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behavior and their partners.
Stay tuned—for more details this amazing session and prepare to be inspired by her compassionate approach to healing and recovery.
PhD, LPC, CAADC, CSAT-S, CMAT, Author
Dr. Jennifer Weeks is the founder and director of Sexual Addiction Treatment Services, an outpatient program dedicated to treating out-of-control sexual behaviors. With over twelve years of experience, she has built a team of compassionate professionals committed to helping individuals heal from sexual addiction, trauma, and substance abuse.
Dr. Weeks holds a Ph.D. in Psychology from The University of Georgia and is a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist/Supervisor, as well as a recognized expert witness in forensic sex offender cases. She frequently provides training to therapists, law enforcement, and legal professionals, and presents at national conferences. An advocate for education and prevention, Dr. Weeks is the author of The New Age of Sex Education: How to Talk to Your Teen about Cybersex and Pornography in the Digital Age and writes the blog Dr. Jen’s Recovery Readings
SUBJECT: SEX ADDICTION, EROTIC CONFLICT, MORAL INCONGRUENCE: MOVING TOWARD A MORE NUANCED DIAGNOSIS
With a rising number of clients seeking treatment for sexual and pornography addiction, clinicians are increasingly encountering cases of problematic sexual behavior without specialized training in behavioral addictions. This session addresses the challenges of diagnosing sexual addiction, particularly given the absence of DSM-V criteria. Attendees will gain insights into distinguishing between addiction, problematic sexual behavior, erotic conflict, and moral incongruence—crucial distinctions for accurate assessment and effective treatment planning. This seminar will equip clinicians with nuanced diagnostic tools and explore tailored approaches to therapy based on the root causes of a client’s distress.
EdD, LMHC, CST, CSAT, CCPS, CAMS, DSTT, CCDG, CHFP, ERCEM
Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck is a highly respected expert in Relationship Therapy, Sex Therapy, and Trauma Recovery, known for her compassionate and engaging approach. Dr. Hollenbeck earned her Doctor of Education in Counselor Education & Supervision from Argosy University, graduating Summa Cum Laude, and holds a Master’s Degree in Counseling/Psychology from Palm Beach Atlantic University.
A sought-after speaker and podcast guest, Dr. Hollenbeck connects powerfully with her audiences, bringing warmth and humor to topics like mental health, healthy sexuality, and relationships. She has presented for notable organizations such as The National Association of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapists, The Center for Healthy Sex, The Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health, and has spoken at a variety of prominent events and conferences, including the APSATS Conference, Betrayal Healing Conference, and the SA Lifeline Conference.
SUBJECT: BETRAYAL TRAUMA ANGER - HOW TO PROCESS COMPLEX ANGER WHILE HEALING FROM SEXUAL BETRAYAL
Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck will explore the intense and often overwhelming anger that partners experience following betrayal. Based on insights from her 2023 Betrayal Trauma Anger Survey, she’ll unpack why this anger can feel so consuming, sometimes leading to behaviors that feel completely out of character. Dr. Hollenbeck will introduce her SCIP protocol to help calm the brain and nervous system and outline the seven Betrayal Trauma Anger CALMING Phases—a pathway for betrayed partners to process their anger and begin healing in a healthier, grounded way.
EdD, LPC, NCC, CSAT-S, CMAT, CCTP, PMAP, PSAP
Dr. Jake Porter is a Licensed Professional Counselor, professor, and the visionary behind Couple-Centered Recovery®—a pioneering approach for couples healing from betrayal trauma. With expertise in developmental neurobiology, relational dynamics, performance psychology, and attachment theory, Dr. Porter has developed a unique framework to address the emotional complexities that arise after betrayal. As the CEO of Daring Ventures, a counseling and coaching organization, he empowers individuals and couples to rebuild trust, foster emotional resilience, and rediscover relational wholeness.
Dr. Porter holds an advanced understanding of integrating clinical science with spiritual formation, making his insights highly relevant for audiences seeking both psychological depth and spiritual perspective. A board member of the Association of Partners of Sex Addict Trauma Specialists (APSATS) and a sought-after speaker, he regularly addresses counselors, faith communities, and men’s groups on topics such as attachment, recovery, and healthy relationships. His work is steeped in research yet presented with an accessible, relatable tone. Dr. Porter delivers dynamic discussions around healing relational trauma, cultivating authentic empathy, and navigating the journey of personal and relational recovery. Dr. Porter’s approach provides actionable tools, relatable stories, and a refreshing perspective on restoring trust and connection.
SUBJECT: HEALING YOUR RELATIONSHIP AFTER THE DISCOVERY OF SEX ADDICTION
When sex addiction comes to light, the resulting pain and chaos can feel insurmountable. Healing requires more than addressing individual recovery—it calls for a relational approach. This talk introduces the Couple-Centered Recovery® model, an emerging framework for guiding couples through the aftermath of betrayal. Drawing from attachment theory, developmental neurobiology, and clinical research, this model integrates safety and stabilization, shared grief, and relational renewal to restore trust and connection. Participants will learn the importance of fostering empathy, setting healthy boundaries, and navigating difficult conversations. By focusing on co-regulation, mutual grieving, and shared values, couples can move from despair to resilience, building a relationship that is not only repaired but reimagined with emotional, spiritual, and relational congruence.
LCSW, LMFT, CCPS-S, CPC-S, CSAT-S, PCC, Author
With decades of experience in the field, Carol Sheets is a highly sought-after educator and thought leader, serving as a faculty member for APSATS for 7 years and IITAP currently —two of the leading organizations in trauma, partner betrayal, and addiction recovery training. When Carol was a faculty presenter, along with Dr. Barbara Steffens, APSATS’ Multidimensional Trauma Model, she specialized in educating professionals worldwide about partner betrayal trauma. She is the creator of the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM), a groundbreaking framework designed to help couples rebuild trust and connection after betrayal. Her ERCEM training and certification program has empowered over 250 clinicians across the globe to guide couples on their healing journeys.
In addition to her training expertise, Carol is the author of several acclaimed books, including Help. Her. Heal. An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help Their Partners Heal and Unleashing Your Power: Moving Beyond Sexual Betrayal. Her newest book, Help. Them. Heal. Teaching You Both How to Navigate Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal, offers tools for couples to navigate post-trauma recovery. A forthcoming book on infidelity is set to release in Spring 2025. Help. Her. Heal. has been accepted as 12 step literature and also includes a 12 step meeting to teach addicts empathy to facilitate healing.
Carol’s dedication extends beyond the classroom and written word. She hosted the very first internet radio podcast on sex addiction and partner betrayal, offering support and resources for individuals and couples navigating compulsive sexual behavior and betrayal trauma.
SUBJECT: SELF-CARE & BETRAYAL TRAUMA HEALING: SEEING YOURSELF BEYOND THE PAIN
Betrayal hijacks the brain, leaving partners overwhelmed by emotions, intrusive thoughts, and uncertainty. But amidst the chaos, there are things within your control—starting with self-care. In this empowering session, Carol the Coach will guide you through essential tools to help you insulate and protect your body and spirit from the betrayal, reclaim your sense of self, and find strength beyond the pain. She will introduce the Pathway to Self-Intimacy, a process that helps you reconnect with yourself and rebuild inner trust. You’ll explore Reality Affirmations, a powerful technique to shift unhelpful thought patterns and ground yourself in truth. Finally, you’ll uncover the keys to happiness again, learning how to rediscover joy and take meaningful steps toward healing. These strategies will empower you to make healthy choices, protect your well-being, and move forward with confidence.
SUBJECT: ERCEM: THE EARLY RECOVERY COUPLES EMPATHY MODEL
In this transformative session, Carol Sheets, LCSW, CSAT-S, CCPS-S, will introduce the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM), a groundbreaking framework designed to help couples rebuild trust and connection after betrayal. Drawing from her books, Help. Her. Heal. and Help. Them. Heal., Carol will guide attendees through the three stages of partner betrayal recovery: Safety and Stabilization, Anger, Grief and Loss, and Post-Traumatic Growth. Attendees will learn how ERCEM empowers the sex addict to take an active role in the healing process through empathy-driven actions, fostering safety and relational growth. This approach not only supports the betrayed partner but also enhances the self-esteem and relational skills of the addict, creating a pathway for couples to move toward deeper connection and post-traumatic growth. Perfect for professionals and couples alike, this session provides practical tools and insights to navigate the complexities of betrayal trauma recovery together.
LCSW-S, CSAT
Mordy Gottlieb is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker Supervisor (LCSW-S) and an IITAP Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) with a deep passion for fostering healing through community. Recognizing the modern epidemic of loneliness, Mordy is dedicated to helping individuals discover safe, meaningful connections and realize that a fulfilling life beyond addiction is not only possible but attainable.
Using creative modalities such as psychodrama, playback theater, improv, and experiential therapies, Mordy helps clients access parts of themselves they never thought imaginable. By cultivating an environment of spontaneity and safety, he guides individuals to break free from pain and suffering, enabling deeper healing work to address the wounds of the past that keep them stuck in the present. Mordy's innovative and compassionate approach transforms lives by empowering clients to embrace connection, creativity, and hope for the future.
SUBJECT: ADDICTION - THE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC
Loneliness is more than an emotional state—it is a key driver behind addiction and intimacy disorders. In this engaging and experiential session, we will explore the profound relationship between loneliness and addiction, revealing how emotional isolation perpetuates cycles of self-destruction and mental health struggles. Drawing from his work with men facing addiction and intimacy challenges, Mordy will demonstrate how fostering community and connection can transform the recovery process. Through experiential exercises utilizing psychodrama and sociometry, participants will experience first-hand how group settings provide the safety, creativity, and connection needed for lasting healing. By the end of the session, attendees will gain new tools and insights to empower those they work with to break free from loneliness and addiction, fostering meaningful connection and hope for the future.
Trauma-Informed Recovery Coach, Writer, and Educator
Pam Blizzard is a dedicated trauma-informed recovery coach specializing in betrayal trauma and sex addiction recovery since 2017. Her personal experiences of betrayal trauma and the impact of addiction on marriages and families inspired her to create a path for others to heal and rebuild their lives after betrayal. As the founder of Recovered Peace, Pam provides online education, coaching, and support groups tailored for wives of sex and porn-addicted men. Her compassionate approach empowers betrayed spouses to reclaim their voice, set boundaries, and restore safety in their lives while navigating the complexities of recovery.
Pam also serves as the Director of Couples Care at Choose Connection Academy, working alongside Dr. Jake Porter to implement the Couple-Centered Recovery model. Through her leadership, she guides couples toward deeper connection and mutual healing. Additionally, Pam mentors aspiring trauma-informed coaches and group facilitators, further expanding the reach of her work.
A cohost of the podcast Hope for Wives, Pam offers faith-based insights and practical tools for those healing from sexual betrayal. Ranking in the top 7% of Apple Podcasts, the show has become a trusted resource for listeners seeking support and hope. Pam’s expertise is enriched by her education with APSATS, the Gottman Institute, Door of Hope, and the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM). She has been a featured speaker for organizations like Helping Couples Heal, the Sarah Society, Room to Heal Sober Living, and APSATS Betrayal Recovery Radio. Through her impactful work, Pam continues to inspire and support individuals and couples as they navigate their journey toward healing, recovery, and connection.
SUBJECT: REDEFINING BOUNDARIES FROM STIGMA, TO TREASURE MAP TO TRUST AND CONNECTION
Trauma experienced by both the betrayer and the betrayed can deeply disrupt our ability to connect in relationships. Misconceptions about boundaries—viewing them as restrictive or punitive—often further hinder healing. This presentation seeks to shift these negative beliefs by redefining boundaries as powerful communication tools that foster safety, rebuild trust, and cultivate deeper emotional connection. The session will explore how boundaries can be seen as acts of self-care and mutual respect, examine the trauma-related barriers to healthy boundary-setting, and offer actionable strategies for creating, communicating, and maintaining boundaries that promote connection. Ultimately, it empowers both betrayed partners and those working to rebuild trust to view boundaries as a collaborative effort in healing and restoring relationships—a vital insight for anyone navigating betrayal trauma.
CPBTC, Educator, Author
Joshua Shea is a pornography addiction expert, certified partner betrayal trauma coach, and therapeutic disclosure specialist dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of addiction and betrayal trauma. As the author of four books, including the best-selling He’s a Porn Addict…Now What? An Expert and Former Addict Answer Your Questions, Joshua has become one of the most recognized voices in the field, offering education, support, and practical tools for recovery. Since launching his coaching practice in 2020, Joshua has worked with over 600 individuals and couples worldwide, guiding them toward healing and personal transformation. His expertise has been sought after on nearly 400 podcasts, television, and radio shows, making him one of the most interviewed professionals on pornography addiction and betrayal trauma. His work has also been featured in TheFix.com and Recovery Today magazine.
Joshua’s journey is deeply personal—after battling a 24-year addiction to pornography and a 22-year addiction to alcohol, he sought treatment in 2014 and has been sober and relapse-free ever since. Prior to entering the recovery space, he was a prominent journalist, magazine publisher, film festival founder, and local politician in Maine. A TEDx speaker and international presenter, Joshua is committed to breaking the stigma around pornography addiction, helping betrayed partners heal, and ensuring that recovery resources are available to those who need them. He currently lives in Maine with his wife and a house full of rescue animals.
SUBJECT: UNDERSTANDING GEN Z’S RELATIONSHIP WITH PORN
Generation Z is the first to grow up in a world where high-speed internet, social media, and DIY porn platforms like OnlyFans have made explicit content more accessible than ever before. With shifting societal norms around sexuality and the concept of pornography addiction emerging in mainstream discussions, what does this mean for Gen Z’s relationship with porn? Are they destined to fall into the same patterns as previous generations, or could they be the ones to break the cycle? In this insightful session, Joshua Shea explores how Gen Z's exposure to pornography has shaped their beliefs, behaviors, and struggles. By moving beyond outdated statistics and traditional approaches, he offers a fresh perspective on how we can truly understand and support this generation on their own terms. Whether you’re a professional, parent, or simply curious about the future of porn consumption and addiction, this deep dive into Gen Z’s digital world will challenge assumptions and spark critical conversations.
LPC, CSAT-S, CMAT-S, IFS Clinical Consultant, Author
Jenna Riemersma is a #1 best-selling author, sought-after speaker, and clinical director known for her compassionate approach to healing. With advanced degrees from Harvard University (Master’s in Public Policy) and Richmont Graduate University (Master’s in Professional Counseling), Jenna combines her extensive education with decades of clinical expertise.
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), trauma-informed EMDR-trained therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor (CSAT-S), Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist Supervisor (CMAT-S), and Certified Level 3 Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapist. As an IFS Clinical Consultant and developer of the Move Toward® shorthand of the IFS model, Jenna works to make the model accessible and impactful for both individuals and clinicians.
Jenna serves as faculty for the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP) and has over a decade of experience training and supervising professionals. She is also trained in experiential therapy and psychodrama, providing innovative and practical tools for lasting recovery.
Jenna’s best-selling books, Altogether You and Altogether Us, have brought Internal Family Systems therapy to a global audience, integrating it with other key modalities. Her free meditations, videos, and courses on platforms like Insight Timer and Sentur further highlight her commitment to accessibility and healing. Celebrating 30 years of marriage, Jenna’s personal journey of healing inspires her professional mission, and she is honored to guide others toward connection, recovery, and wholeness.
SUBJECT: FROM CONFLICT TO CONNECTION: EXPRESSING NEEDS WITH CLARITY & COMPASSION
Looking to communicate your needs in the aftermath of betrayal trauma or compulsive sexual behavior? In this dynamic and practical workshop, Jenna Riemersma will teach you a simple yet powerful tool to express yourself with confidence, clarity, and compassion, even in the most challenging moments. You’ll learn how to de-escalate conflict, foster emotional safety, and give yourself the highest probability of being truly heard and understood. Whether you’re working through recovery as an individual or as a couple, this session will help you turn relationship communication struggles into opportunities for healing and deeper connection. Don’t miss this chance to transform conflict into connection!
LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCPS, CMAT, Author
Tim Stein is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a leader in the field of sexual addiction, partner betrayal, and trauma treatment. As the co-founder of Willow Tree Counseling, an outpatient treatment center, Tim has dedicated his career to supporting individuals, couples, and families navigating the challenges of addiction and trauma. With certifications as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT-S), Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT-S), Tim provides expert individual, group, and couples therapy, employing advanced trauma-focused techniques such as Post Induction Therapy, EMDR, and Brainspotting.
In addition to his clinical work, Tim is the President of the Board for The American Foundation for Addiction Research (AFAR), a nonprofit dedicated to advancing addiction research and treatment. A respected voice in the treatment community, Tim frequently presents at national conferences and co-hosts the podcast Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships. He is also the creator of the online video series Introduction to Sex Addiction and Partner Betrayal.
Tim is an accomplished author, having written Finding the Way Through: A Workbook for Sex and Pornography Addiction – Sobriety, Recovery, & Partner Betrayal Sensitivity as well as Gifts of Recovery: Daily Meditations for Men and Women in Recovery from Sex Addiction. Through these resources, he offers practical guidance and encouragement to individuals and couples on their recovery journeys. With over a decade of experience in addiction and trauma treatment, Tim continues to make a profound impact on the field, combining evidence-based therapies with compassionate care to foster healing and growth.
SUBJECT: CSBD: FINDING THE WAY THROUGH – A PATH TO REAL HEALING
Struggling with CSBD can feel overwhelming and isolating, but real hope and healing are possible. This powerful session will cut through the confusion, breaking down what CSBD is—and what it isn’t. We’ll dive into the science behind compulsive sexual behaviors, exploring the neurological and psychological factors that drive them. You’ll gain a deeper understanding of how CSBD happens, including the roles of trauma, vulnerability, the impact of modern technology, and other topics. But most importantly, this session is about finding a way through. You’ll discover the key steps to gaining traction in recovery, learn to recognize red flags, understand partner sensitivity, learn practical tools to break free from destructive patterns, and create lasting change. Recovery isn’t just about stopping behaviors—it’s about creating a meaningful, fulfilling life. This session offers invaluable insights and actionable steps to move forward and find a way through to transformative healing.
SUBJECT: HEALING TOGETHER: A PARTNER-SENSITIVE APPROACH TO SEX ADDICTION INTERVENTION
In this insightful and educational presentation, Tim Stein and Jeanne Vattuone will introduce a groundbreaking sex addiction intervention methodology that prioritizes sensitivity for betrayed partners. Drawing on over a decade of clinical program management experience, advanced training in addiction and partner trauma treatment, and recent advances in couple’s healing, Tim and Jeanne will explore how partner-sensitive practices can be seamlessly integrated into addict sobriety and recovery work. Attendees will gain a deeper understanding of this innovative approach, which fosters mutual healing and supports both partners on their journey toward recovery and renewed connection.
LPC, CSAT, Author
Allan Katz is the founder of Rediscovery Counseling and Coaching in Memphis, a client-centered private mental health practice specializing in personalized care for individuals and couples facing challenges such as sex, love, and porn addiction, betrayal trauma, intimacy disorders, depression, and anxiety. With over 1,000 clients counseled, Allan combines his professional training and extensive experience with over 51 years of marriage to provide compassionate, non-judgmental support for those seeking healing and restored connection.
An accomplished author, Allan has written six books, including Help Her Heal (co-authored with Carol Sheets) for supporting betrayed partners, Ambushed by Betrayal (co-authored with Michele Saffier), and Navigating the Phases of Sex Addiction Recovery, which guides recovering addicts toward meaningful sobriety. He has also contributed resources for therapists, such as Experiential Group Therapy Interventions with DBT: A 30-Day Program for Treating Addictions and Trauma.
Allan integrates the eight stages of intimacy model, DBT skills, and experiential therapy into his practice, fostering respect, acceptance, and growth. His approach offers individualized, group, and intensive formats tailored to the unique needs of his clients, helping them rediscover purpose and build healthier lives. Allan’s expertise, dedication, and passion for guiding others through the complexities of addiction, trauma, and relationships make him a trusted resource and a sought-after speaker in his field.
SUBJECT: I'M SOBER; NOW WHAT?: NAVIGATING VALUES, INTEGRITY, AND PURPOSE FOR LONG TERM SEX ADDICTION SOBRIETY
Maintaining long-term sobriety from sex addiction requires more than abstinence—it demands navigating life’s ongoing challenges with resilience, intention, and purpose. In this insightful presentation, Allan Katz explores the dynamic process of recovery, likening it to a roller coaster with ups, downs, and unexpected hurdles that test your progress and commitment.
Participants will learn how to combat distractions, impulsivity, and indifference—common pitfalls that can lead to relapse—by arming themselves with practical tools and strategies. Through Allan’s unique V.I.P. formula, centered on Values, Integrity, and Purpose, attendees will gain actionable insights to foster meaningful growth, overcome challenges, and maintain sobriety with confidence and clarity. This presentation offers a roadmap for building a life of stability, fulfillment, and purpose in recovery, empowering you to face obstacles and continue your journey toward a healthier, more intentional future.
LCSW, CCPS-S, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, Author
Jeanne Vattuone is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 25 years of experience working with those impacted by traumas and 15 years specializing in the treatment of sex addiction and partner betrayal trauma. As the co-founder of Willow Tree Counseling, an intensive outpatient clinical group, Jeanne has dedicated her career to helping individuals and couples heal from the impacts of sex addiction. She works with clients using her expertise as a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT-S), Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS-S), and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT-S), incorporating advanced modalities such as Brainspotting and EMDR into her therapeutic approach. In addition to her clinical work, Jeanne offers consultation and training for professionals seeking certification in these specializations. She serves as the President of the Board for the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS), an international organization where she has been an active leader since 2014.
Jeanne is a sought-after speaker at both local and national levels and co-hosts the podcast Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships. She is also the co-author of the recently released book Finding the Way Through: A Workbook for Sex and Pornography Addiction – Sobriety, Recovery, & Partner Betrayal Sensitivity. An abridged version of the workbook, written specifically for betrayed partners, is set to release soon. Through her leadership, writing, and clinical practice, Jeanne remains deeply committed to supporting individuals, couples, and clinicians in navigating the path to recovery and healing.
SUBJECT: COMING SOON
Join us for an enlightening session with Jeanne Vattuone, renowned author, podcast co-host, and therapist, as she brings the trauma-informed treatment to life. This is a unique opportunity to learn from one of the leading experts in the field. Jeanne brings a wealth of knowledge and compassion to the field. Her dedication to advocating for trauma-informed treatment models has significantly benefited both individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behavior and their partners.
Stay tuned—for more details this amazing session and prepare to be inspired by her compassionate approach to healing and recovery.
SUBJECT: HEALING TOGETHER: A PARTNER-SENSITIVE APPROACH TO SEX ADDICTION INTERVENTION
In this insightful and educational presentation, Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein will introduce a groundbreaking sex addiction intervention methodology that prioritizes sensitivity for betrayed partners. Drawing on over a decade of clinical program management experience, advanced training in addiction and partner trauma treatment, and recent advances in couple’s healing, Tim and Jeanne will explore how partner-sensitive practices can be seamlessly integrated into addict sobriety and recovery work. Attendees will gain a deeper understanding of this innovative approach, which fosters mutual healing and supports both partners on their journey toward recovery and renewed connection.
LMFT, CSAT, Author
Marnie C. Ferree is a trailblazer in the field of sexual addiction recovery and the founder of Bethesda Workshops, an innovative program that has become a beacon of hope for individuals and couples struggling with sexual addiction and betrayal. Over her illustrious career, Marnie has gained a national reputation as a pioneer, thought leader, and compassionate voice for those navigating the complexities of recovery. In 1997, Marnie launched the first workshop program specifically for female sex addicts, a groundbreaking initiative that has since expanded to include male addicts, partners, and couples. Bethesda Workshops now draws participants from across the U.S. and Canada, offering a safe space for healing and transformation. Even after stepping away from her roles as Executive and Clinical Director in 2024, Marnie continues to contribute to the ministry through writing, teaching, and supporting workshop participants.
A licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT), Marnie is the author of the seminal book No Stones: Women Redeemed from Sexual Addiction, the first Christian book on the subject written by a woman in recovery. She has also authored the L.I.F.E. Guide for Women and co-authored Out of the Doghouse for Christian Men: A Redemptive Guide for Men Caught Cheating. Her editorial work includes Making Advances – A Comprehensive Guide for Treating Female Sex and Love Addicts, a landmark volume in the field.
Throughout her career, Marnie has shared her expertise at professional and recovery conferences, churches, and schools, often consulting with organizations on issues of sexual integrity and clergy abuse. Her advocacy and writing, including a groundbreaking series on childhood sexual abuse in The Tennessean, have inspired countless individuals and sparked meaningful conversations about recovery and redemption. A devoted mother of two and proud “GrandMarnie” to four grandchildren, Marnie brings a deeply personal perspective to her work, making her rare speaking engagements, like her appearance at the CSBD Hope for Healing Conference, a profound privilege for attendees.
SUBJECT: REFLECTIONS ON LONG-TERM RECOVERY: INSIGHTS FROM PERSONAL RECOVERY AND CLINICAL PRACTICE
Sobriety from problematic sexual behavior or recovery from the trauma of betrayal are only the starting points of a much deeper and more rewarding journey. In this powerful and heartfelt session, Marnie C. Ferree will explore what it means to move beyond the early stages of recovery into the life-long process of healing—a spiritual journey that continues throughout a lifetime. Marnie will share her personal recovery story, from entering sobriety at age 35 to uncovering the impact of childhood sexual abuse, the pain of her mother’s untimely death, and the betrayals she experienced during her 40-year marriage. Now at 69, she reflects on the lessons she’s learned about moving from sobriety or survival to thriving. Her journey of restoration, including the unexpected joy of a late-life detour, demonstrates that healing isn’t about achieving perfection but about living with integrity, courage, and joy amid life’s messiness. Drawing on 30 years of professional experience treating sexual addiction, partner betrayal trauma, and sexual abuse, Marnie will also share vital lessons from her career. Attendees will leave inspired by the possibilities of long-term healing and equipped with insights to navigate their own journeys of recovery and transformation.
LPC-MHSP, NCC, CSAT
William Feck is a dedicated clinician, educator, and researcher with a passion for trauma-informed care and addiction recovery. As the Clinical Advisor at Integrative Life Center, he has been instrumental in shaping the center’s treatment philosophy and advancing its intimacy disorder program. William began his career as an elementary school counselor before transitioning to clinical practice. He is a faculty member in the professional counseling program at Middle Tennessee State University, where he supervises practicum students and teaches courses such as theories of counseling and addictions.
Currently pursuing a PhD in Clinical Counseling at Trevecca Nazarene University, his research focuses on the interplay between combat-related PTSD, attachment styles, and posttraumatic cognitions.
William is trained in Brainspotting Phase I and II, Gottman Level 1, and is a nationally certified counselor (NCC) and certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). His expertise in trauma, addiction, and relational healing makes him a valuable voice in the field of mental health and recovery.
SUBJECT: HEALING RELATIONAL PATTERNS THROUGH SOMATIC ATTUNEMENT
Our earliest experiences shape the way we connect with others—often in ways we don’t even realize. In this transformative session, William Feck will guide participants in uncovering the formative experiences that have contributed to maladaptive relational patterns. Through the lens of somatic attunement, attendees will explore how the body holds onto relational anxiety and reactive patterns, influencing both self-perception and interpersonal dynamics. By identifying these unconscious responses, participants will gain practical tools to break free from cycles of disconnection, foster emotional growth, and cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. The session will also introduce the power of corrective emotional experiences—opportunities to rewrite relational narratives and create lasting change. Whether you’re navigating personal healing, working with clients, or seeking to strengthen relationships, this session will offer essential insights and strategies for fostering authentic, attuned interactions.
Biologist, CEO of IDEAS For Us, and Advocate for Community-Driven Recovery
Clayton Louis Ferrara is a biologist, naturalist, and Chief Executive Officer of IDEAS For Us, a United Nations-accredited NGO operating in nearly 40 countries. With a career devoted to advancing sustainability, Clayton combines his expertise in ecology and community development to create innovative solutions that heal the planet while empowering individuals and communities.
Born in Chile and based in Florida, Clayton has worked with individuals recovering from addiction since 1997, demonstrating how community involvement and connection to environmental and social causes can transform lives. By fostering engagement in sustainable initiatives, he helps rewire coping mechanisms and build equitable networks of support—offering a unique perspective on the intersection of recovery, resilience, and purpose-driven action.
In addition to his work with IDEAS For Us, Clayton’s influence extends globally. He has collaborated with renowned organizations and leaders, including The United Nations, The Vatican, and The White House. A Darwin Fellow and Knight of The Order of St. George, he has conducted biological research on five continents and is recognized for his thought leadership in sustainability, conservation, and nonprofit innovation.
SUBJECT: PURPOSE-DRIVEN HEALING: TRANSFORMATIVE RECOVERY THROUGH COMMUNITY SERVICE AND MEANINGFUL ENGAGEMENT
In this session, Clayton Louis Ferrara will explore how integrating community service and purposeful engagement into addiction recovery can serve as a powerful complement to clinical treatment, particularly for those overcoming sex and opioid addictions. Clayton will highlight emerging nonprofit models that use structured volunteer opportunities, mentorship programs, skill-building initiatives, and trauma-informed activities to rebuild self-worth, foster long-term recovery, and create meaningful community connections. These models have demonstrated significant reductions in recidivism and improved mental health, showcasing how purpose-driven service can enhance personal growth and support sustainable recovery. This session will provide insights on how community involvement can transform the recovery journey, emphasizing a strengths-based approach to healing and reintegration.
MA, LPC, CSAT, CCT, Doctoral Candidate
Carley is a clinical team member at Daring Ventures, where she provides therapeutic support to both couples and individuals navigating the complexities of betrayal trauma, sex addiction, and relational challenges. With a BA Honors in Psychology from Rhodes University in South Africa and an MA in Counseling from Houston Graduate School of Theology, Carley has developed a deep understanding of the multifaceted nature of trauma and its long-lasting effects.
Her professional journey includes specialized training in sex addiction and couples therapy with neuro-informed
therapies such as memory reconsolidation to address the neurobiological underpinnings of trauma. Carley is especially passionate about helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal trauma, drawing on her own personal experiences of familial betrayal to offer empathy, understanding, and insight. Her work is focused on supporting adult children of sex addicts, helping them reclaim their voice, rebuild trust, and create lasting change in their relationships.
Carley’s therapeutic approach guides clients through deep, transformational healing that goes beyond mere behavior modification. She combines her training in various models (including EMDR, AEDP, CSAT, and Coherence therapy) with her personal experiences to approach clients from both a neurobiological and humanistic perspective. By harnessing her own life story, Carley relates more deeply to her clients, fostering a richer therapeutic experience. She employs methods that she has personally used in her own life, witnessing firsthand the power of these approaches in transforming her family and relationships. Her work emphasizes the importance of connection, believing that it is fundamental to healing and growth. Having presented at various summits and podcasts, Carley is a passionate speaker on the topics of trauma, addiction, and relationship dynamics. Her commitment to helping others navigate complex histories and create meaningful change is rooted in her belief that healing is possible through present-focused, strengths-based interventions.
SUBJECT: FIGHTING FOR A PLACE AT THE TABLE: HEARING THE VOICE OF THE ADULT CHILD OF SEX ADDICTION
Join Carley as she explores the new and emerging conversation in the betrayal trauma world - the perceptions and experience of the Adult Child of Sex Addiction. While the field of sex addiction has made great strides in supporting both the betrayer and the betrayed partner, adult children of sex addicts have largely been left out of the conversation. In this session, Carley will introduce a new framework based on her research and professional insights, focusing on how adult children perceive themselves, their parents, and their relationship to recovery.
Carley will challenge traditional models, showing how the ‘codependency’ model can be applied to adult children as originally intended, and shedding light on the unique experiences of mothers who are often misunderstood by their grown children in the aftermath of betrayal. If you’re looking for fresh perspectives on recovery, relational dynamics, and healing, this session is for you!
PhD, LPC-S, CSAT, CCTP, CSOTP, Author
Stevie Hall is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with a PhD in Cognitive Psychology and nearly a decade of experience in addiction and trauma. Specializing in helping individuals and couples navigate challenges like addiction, betrayal, intimacy struggles, and complex trauma, Stevie blends clinical expertise with a deep understanding of human behavior to guide clients toward meaningful growth and healing.
As the co-author of Therapeutic Separation: A Guide for Couples Facing Addiction, Stevie brings compassionate insight and practical tools to help couples find clarity and connection during difficult times. Stevie also conducts empathy assessments and provides detailed reports to help individuals and professionals understand the vital role empathy plays in relationships and personal growth.
In addition to clinical work, Stevie is deeply involved in research and training, with a focus on publishing their empathy model and assessment. Stevie is passionate about equipping professionals with the knowledge and confidence to integrate empathy into their practice.
SUBJECT: WHY EMPATHY FAILS: RETHINKING EMPATHY IN CLINICAL PRACTICE
In this insightful presentation, Stevie Hall explores the often-overlooked complexities of empathy and how its frequent shortcomings can impact clinical practice. Many clinicians equate empathy with compassion, but empathy actually spans multiple dimensions—cognitive, affective, and action-oriented—that are crucial for deepening client connections and improving therapeutic results. Drawing from contemporary research, this session will reveal evidence-based principles for assessing and applying empathy more effectively. Attendees will learn how to integrate a multidimensional model of empathy into their practice, gain practical tools to assess empathy, and discover strategies to help clients enhance empathy across all dimensions.
PhD, LMFT, CSAT, CCS
Dr. Lora Kojovic is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical Sexologist, and EMDR Certified Therapist, specializing in the treatment of intimacy disorders, including sex addiction and Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder (CSBD), as well as trauma-related disorders. With nearly a decade of experience working with individuals navigating addiction and trauma, Lora brings a depth of expertise to her clinical practice. She is currently a therapist at Banyan Therapy Group in Los Angeles, an outpatient clinic specializing in sex addiction treatment. Prior to this, she was a primary therapist at Seeking Integrity Los Angeles, a residential treatment center for sex addiction, and Reconnect Integrative Trauma Treatment Center, an intensive outpatient clinic for trauma recovery.
As part of her PhD research in Clinical Sexology, Lora developed a Polyvagal-Informed Treatment Approach (PTA) for CSBD, integrating insights from polyvagal theory to deepen the understanding of the autonomic nervous system’s role in sex addiction and compulsive sexual behavior. Her approach provides a complementary lens to existing treatment models, offering clients additional pathways for healing. Lora’s therapeutic style is integrative, blending polyvagal-theory-informed and interpersonal-neurobiology-based approaches with attachment-focused, somatic, cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, and systemic modalities. Her work is rooted in a deep commitment to helping individuals find lasting recovery, healing, and relational well-being.
SUBJECT: FROM COMPLUSIVE SEXUAL BEHAVIOR TO CO-REGULATED SEXUALITY AND EMBODIED INTIMACY
Traditional CSBD treatment often overlooks the role of nervous system dysregulation in compulsive sexual behaviors. This session introduces the Polyvagal-Informed Treatment Approach (PTA)—a cutting-edge framework that helps clinicians address autonomic nervous system (ANS) regulation as a key factor in healing. Learn how Polyvagal Theory (PVT) reshapes our understanding of CSBD, explore the link between trauma, intimacy struggles, and compulsive behaviors, and discover a two-step process for guiding clients toward co-regulated sexuality and embodied intimacy. Walk away with practical tools to enhance treatment outcomes and foster lasting change.
SUBJECT: UNDERSTANDING AND HEALING CSBD THROUGH THE LENS OF THE AUTONOMIC NERVOUS SYSTEM AND POLYVAGAL THEORY
Dive into a groundbreaking exploration of Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder (CSBD) and sex addiction through the lens of the autonomic nervous system (ANS) and Polyvagal Theory. Led by Dr. Lora Kojovic, this interactive workshop will illuminate how compulsive and addictive sexual behaviors often stem from attempts to regulate a dysregulated nervous system. Rather than being purely behavioral, CSBD can be understood as a response to underlying states of threat and disconnection. Through this lens, participants will gain a deeper understanding of the link between trauma, intimacy, and sexual compulsivity, while discovering actionable tools to shift from maladaptive coping strategies to a more embodied and co-regulated experience of sexuality. Learn how to harness the body’s self-healing capacity to foster lasting change and cultivate intimacy from a place of safety and connection.
LMHC, SUDP, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCPS, CMAT, CCBRT, CCES, EAMHP, CPC
Heidi is a highly respected therapist specializing in helping individuals and couples navigate the challenges of sex addiction, infidelity, pornography addiction, substance abuse, and betrayal trauma. As the President and Clinical Director of Fourth Dimension Counseling & Coaching, she brings decades of expertise in addiction recovery and trauma-informed care. With advanced training in sex addiction, partner trauma, and multiple addiction therapies, Heidi is passionate about guiding clients toward healing and long-term recovery. She is a Meadows-trained therapist with specialized training in trauma recovery, including Post-Induction Therapy (PIT) and Attachment-Focused EMDR. She also integrates Equine-Assisted Therapy into her work, offering betrayed partner intensives at her healing ranch in Maple Valley.
Heidi has worked in both inpatient and outpatient settings, including Gentle Path at The Meadows, where she trained with pioneers in the field, such as Dr. Patrick Carnes and Dr. Claudia Black. She has also served as an adjunct instructor in addiction studies at Eastern Washington University and is an approved clinical supervisor in multiple states. With over three decades in recovery herself, Heidi is deeply committed to creating a compassionate, safe space where clients can find hope, self-awareness, and lasting change. Her approach is integrative and collaborative, ensuring that each client plays an active role in their healing journey.
SUBJECT: BEYOND RULES - COLLABORATIVE BOUNDARIES THAT FOSTER TRUST AND GROWTH
Setting healthy boundaries is crucial for couples recovering from betrayal trauma, but it can be challenging, especially when partners struggle to determine what boundaries they need for safety. Often, boundaries are imposed by the partner, and while the addict may agree to them in therapy, it doesn’t always lead to long-term compliance or trust. This can create frustration, resentment, and further breaches of trust. In this session, we’ll introduce a more collaborative approach to boundary-setting. Rather than simply telling the addict what boundaries need to be in place, partners will have the opportunity to communicate their needs while the addict is encouraged to be honest about whether they can honor those boundaries—and why. This allows for a deeper, more transparent conversation where both partners can understand each other's feelings and limitations. Join us for this session to learn how to establish boundaries that foster safety, create accountability, and move both partners forward in their healing journey. By the end, you’ll have a clear framework for setting collaborative boundaries that nurture both trust and growth.
PsyD, LMFT, CSAT, CCPS, CPTT
Dr. Gloria Gilbert is a deeply respected psychologist with over 25 years of experience specializing in the treatment of trauma, compulsive sexual behavior, and betrayal trauma. Licensed in over 40 states, she has dedicated her career to helping individuals heal from both the visible and hidden wounds of trauma. She believes that trauma is not just what happens to you, but what happens inside you—impacting the way you experience yourself, your relationships, and the world around you. Through an integrative and compassion-driven approach, Dr. Gilbert blends Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (SP), and Emotional Transformation Therapy (ETT) to help individuals break free from cycles of pain and rediscover their authentic selves. She is an EMDR Approved Consultant, ETT Certified, IFS Informed, and Level I-trained in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, making her uniquely equipped to address the complexities of trauma at both the emotional and neurological levels.
For nearly two decades, Dr. Gilbert was a key member of the Psychological Counseling Services (PCS) Intensive Treatment Program, where she provided in-depth therapy for individuals struggling with sex addiction and partner betrayal. She is also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), equipping her with a specialized understanding of the unique pain and healing needs of betrayed partners—a field distinct from traditional addiction recovery for spouses of alcoholics or drug users. Beyond her clinical work, Dr. Gilbert facilitates Betrayed Partner Support Groups and couples’ healing groups, offering guidance to those navigating the aftermath of infidelity and compulsive sexual behavior. Her mission is to bring healing to the root of trauma, empowering individuals to move beyond survival and reclaim a life filled with clarity, connection, and inner peace.
SUBJECT: BEYOND TALK THERAPY - TRAUMA THERAPY APPROACHES THAT TRANSFORM HEALING
Trauma is more than just an event—it’s the lasting imprint it leaves on the nervous system, emotions, and sense of self. While traditional talk therapy provides valuable insights, it often falls short in addressing the deep-seated emotional and physiological wounds that trauma creates. True healing requires engaging both the mind and body. This session explores four leading trauma therapy approaches—Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (SP), and Emotional Transformation Therapy (ETT)—and how they go beyond talk therapy to facilitate lasting recovery. Through real-world case examples, participants will gain a practical understanding of how these therapies help individuals process trauma, regulate emotions, and reconnect with their authentic selves. Additionally, this presentation will highlight the transformative power of support groups, illustrating how shared experiences and collective healing play a critical role in trauma recovery. Whether you are a clinician, someone healing from trauma, or supporting a loved one, this session will provide valuable insights into choosing the right therapy approach and harnessing the power of community-based healing.
LPC, CSAT, CCPS
Matt Wenger is the Executive Clinical Director of Begin Again Institute, a 14-day Trauma-Based Intensive program dedicated to helping men recover from porn and sex addiction. As a key figure in the creation of Boulder Recovery, a Christian men’s intensive program, Matt has provided support to over 1,000 men since 2019. His clinical expertise lies in men’s addiction, trauma, couple’s recovery, and the spiritual aspects of healing. Matt began his clinical career working with traumatized children and young people, where he learned how complex issues can lead to mental distress and dysfunction within families. This early work sparked his connection to the TINSA® (Trauma-Induced Sexual Addiction) approach, which focuses on the intersection of childhood trauma and addiction. His passion for helping men navigate this painful intersection led him to work with individuals identifying as sex addicts at Begin Again Institute.
Matt holds a master’s degree in Couples and Family Counseling and integrates multiple therapeutic approaches into his work, including Emotion Focused Therapy, Attachment Theory, Motivational Interviewing, Guided Meditation, and Brainspotting. He is deeply committed to his clients’ healing, working tirelessly to support them in overcoming their trauma and addiction, believing that everyone deserves the opportunity to live a healthy, fulfilling life. When not working, Matt enjoys reading, art, hiking in the beautiful Colorado landscape, and spending quality time with his wife and son.
SUBJECT: PART OF THE PROCESS - UNDERSTANDING TRIGGERS, RELAPSE, AND THE ADDICTION CYCLE
Relapse is not about willpower—it’s about understanding the deeper patterns at play. In this session, attendees will explore triggers in relation to CSBD, how they develop, and why they can lead to relapse. Through a deeper understanding of the brain’s response to triggers, participants will gain insight into the emotional, psychological, and physiological factors that drive compulsive behaviors. This session will also provide practical tools to identify and navigate triggers effectively, understand what to do when a relapse occurs, and create a sustainable path toward lasting recovery.
SUBJECT: HEALING THE ROOTS - EXPLORING THE CONNECTION BETWEEN ATTACHMENT TRAUMA AND SEX ADDICTION
The therapeutic community is increasingly recognizing the critical link between trauma and sex addiction, but does the type of trauma shape the nature of the addiction or the treatment? In this presentation, Matt Wenger will explore the powerful role of Attachment Trauma and how simplifying complex narratives can bring profound insights to clients. Understanding the origins of addiction and its specific impact on relationships can unlock healing in ways that are often not immediately apparent. Through this session, participants will gain a deeper understanding of how Attachment Wounds contribute to or exacerbate addictive behaviors, and how to use this knowledge to develop effective interventions. With a new therapeutic framework, attendees will leave better equipped to guide their clients toward lasting healing, in both professional and personal contexts.
James - LMHC, CSAT-S, CCPS-S, CPTT, FQS & Sharon - LCSW, CCPS-S, CPTT, CST, FQS
Sharon Rinearson and James Annear are married therapists, life coaches, and a couple in long-term successful recovery. With a combined 37 years of experience in mental health and addiction treatment, they specialize in helping couples heal from relational and sexual betrayals, as well as addressing the lasting effects of developmental trauma. Their unique approach integrates neurobiology, addiction science, trauma-informed interventions, and interpersonal therapies, creating custom intensives that foster deep, lasting transformation. Together, Sharon and James have spent the past 13 years designing and leading intensive therapy experiences for individuals and couples. Their programs incorporate extensive pre intensive testing and collaboration with referring therapists, ensuring that each intensive is tailored to the specific needs of their clients. They divide their practice between South Florida in the winter and the Smoky Mountains of Tennessee in the summer and fall, welcoming clients from around the world into safe, supportive environments designed for healing and growth.
As professionals deeply invested in the fields of Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder (CSBD) and Betrayal Trauma, they are dedicated to supporting both professionals and individuals on their recovery journeys. Having personally navigated sex addiction and betrayal trauma recovery for over 14 years, they bring a unique blend of clinical expertise and lived experience to their work. They have presented at SASH, the Daring Ventures Summit, C-SASI, and APSATS, and both are APSATS certified with years of service on the APSATS Board of Directors. Their passion lies in helping as many individuals and couples as possible find healing.
SUBJECT: THE SPECTRE AND SPECTRUM OF INTIMACY ADVERSITY - A NEW LOOK AT INTIMACY ADVOIDANCE
The therapeutic Intimacy adversity is one of the most overlooked yet deeply painful challenges in relationships impacted by Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder (CSBD) and betrayal trauma. Often unseen and unconscious to the person struggling with it, intimacy adversity is the hesitancy—or outright refusal—to share one’s true self with others, leading to profound disconnection, emotional pain, and relational distress. In this powerful and eye-opening session, Sharon Rinearson and James Annear introduce their groundbreaking Intimacy Adversity Continuum, a framework that traces the progression from emotional reticence to avoidance, anorexia, and even enmity. They will explore the root causes of intimacy adversity, what it looks like at different stages, and how it impacts both partners on a deep emotional and psychological level. With their signature blend of clinical expertise, personal insight, and practical strategies, Sharon and James will equip professionals, individuals with CSBD, and betrayed partners with therapeutic tools and interventions to break through intimacy barriers, rebuild connection, and foster lasting healing. Whether you're a clinician, a person in recovery, or a partner seeking understanding, this session will offer clarity, hope, and a path forward.
PhD, LMHC, MCAP
Dr. Sachi Ananda is a licensed mental health counselor, certified master’s-level addiction professional, and clinical sexologist with a deep passion for helping individuals heal from trauma, addiction, and relational struggles. As the Director of "Shatterproof FHE Health," she provides clinical leadership to a specialized treatment program designed to support first responders in their recovery from PTSD, addiction, and mental health challenges—helping them return to their critical roles in their communities and families. With expertise in trauma therapy, sex addiction, and substance use recovery, Dr. Ananda is trained in EMDR Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, relapse prevention, sex therapy, and family interventions.
Her personal background gives her a unique understanding of PTSD and its impact on first responders and military personnel—having grown up in a military family with a father in the Vietnamese Navy and a brother in the U.S. Marines.
Originally from Vietnam, Dr. Ananda and her family immigrated to the U.S. as refugees, settling in the Pacific Northwest before she eventually made Florida her home. Recognized as a "Vietnamese American Pioneer" by Tet in Seattle, she has published numerous articles on relationships, trauma, and addiction recovery. When she's not working, she takes pride in being an aunt to six nieces, one nephew, and a dachshund named Dexter.
SUBJECT: THE IMPACT OF SEX ADDICTION ON FIRST RESPONDERS: CHALLENGES AND SUPPORT STRATEGIES
The First responders operate under extreme stress, trauma, and demanding schedules—factors that significantly increase their vulnerability to maladaptive coping mechanisms, including sex addiction. In this eye-opening presentation, Dr. Sachi Ananda explores the prevalence, psychological impact, and relational consequences of sex addiction among first responders. Attendees will gain insight into contributing factors such as PTSD, high-adrenaline environments, and increased access to risky behaviors. Dr. Ananda will also discuss practical intervention strategies, including specialized therapy, peer support, and organizational policies that promote long-term well-being. By breaking the stigma surrounding sex addiction in first responder communities, we can create pathways to healing, ensuring these dedicated professionals receive the treatment and support they need to continue serving our communities and nation with integrity and resilience.
LMFT, CSAT-S, CET, Author
Michele Saffier is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 32 years of clinical experience, specializing in betrayal trauma and compulsive sexual behavior for more than 28 years. She is the Clinical Director and Founder of Michele Saffier & Associates, where she and her expert team provide specialized therapy for betrayed partners, individuals recovering from sexually compulsive behavior, couples, and families through individual sessions, groups, and her renowned Healing Hearts Couples Workshop Intensives. Michele is the author of Ambushed by Betrayal: The Survivor’s Guide for Betrayed Partners on Their Hero’s Journey to Healthy Intimacy (2022), a powerful resource guiding partners through the trauma of betrayal toward healing and renewed intimacy.
She has presented at leading organizations such as AASECT, IITAP, AAMFT, and S-ANON, and has been a guest expert on platforms including Sex, Love & Addiction with Dr. Rob, Carol the Coach, and Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships. Dedicated to bridging the gap between research and real-world healing, Michele has developed specialized curricula for betrayed partners, individuals in recovery, and couples, utilizing her Trust, Exoneration, and Reconciliation Couples Healing Model. She integrates experiential therapy, attachment-focused EMDR, Internal Family Systems, psychodrama, and the Gottman Method into her clinical work, helping clients move beyond betrayal toward deep, meaningful connection. Practicing in Blue Bell, Pennsylvania, Michele is deeply committed to helping individuals and couples reclaim their lives after betrayal. She lives with her husband of 34 years and is proud that both of her adult children have followed in her footsteps into the mental health field.
SUBJECT: RISING TOGETHER: FACILITATING A COUPLES HEALING INTENSIVE
Betrayal shatters the foundation of a relationship, but healing is possible when both partners commit to rebuilding with intention, courage, and connection. In this transformative presentation, Michele Saffier introduces her powerful Couples Healing Intensive model—an integrative approach that blends Internal Family Systems, the Gottman Method, experiential action methods, and marital trauma work to help couples rise from the devastation of betrayal toward a robust, joyous, and deeply connected partnership. Attendees will gain insight into the key elements of this intensive: learning healthy communication techniques, recognizing and dismantling destructive coping strategies, and overcoming internal roadblocks that prevent intimacy and trust. Michele will guide professionals in helping couples reclaim self-respect, dignity, and shared purpose, ultimately co-creating a resilient "House of Us." Whether you're a clinician looking to deepen your practice or a couple seeking a roadmap to relational healing, this session offers powerful tools for transformation.
LPCC, CSAT
Spencer is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Ohio and a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) with a deep commitment to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and relational healing. With experience in both community mental health and Christian private practice settings, he now operates his own private practice, where he provides compassionate, client-centered care.
Spencer’s expertise extends beyond sex addiction to depression, anxiety, life transitions, spiritual concerns, and couples counseling. His therapeutic approach is rooted in connection—offering clients a space to share their stories, reclaim their voices, and reshape their narratives toward greater healing and fulfillment. Passionate about empowering his clients, Spencer is dedicated to guiding individuals and couples toward hope, renewal, and thriving relationships.
SUBJECT: DECONSTRUCTING PURITY CULTURE: NAVIGATING CHALLENGES IN PROVIDING SEXUAL RECOVERY TREATMENT TO THE CHRISTIAN EVANGELICAL COMMUNITY
Within Christian Evangelical communities, sex addiction treatment is often sought after due to strong adherence to Biblical teachings on fidelity, marriage, and sexual morality. However, individuals from these backgrounds may experience internal conflict when engaging with sex-positive, evidence-based recovery approaches. This presentation explores key points of dissonance that can arise in treatment—such as misogyny and gender roles, LGBTQ+ topics, the stigmatization of fantasy, and purity culture’s rigid views on sexuality. Through this discussion, clinicians will gain insight into the unique challenges Evangelical clients face in reconciling their faith with recovery principles. The session will provide practical strategies for offering clinically sound, respectful, and effective treatment that both honors religious beliefs and challenges limiting narratives, fostering healing and healthy sexual expression.
CPC, CRC, APSATS CPC
Sarah Morales is a Certified Professional Coach, Certified Relationship Coach, APSATS Certified Partner Coach, and the founder of Sarah Morales Coaching. She is also the creator of the Deconstructing Gaslighting® Academy, a groundbreaking educational and training platform that provides specialized programs for gaslighting victims, perpetrators in recovery, first responders, peer facilitators, and helping professionals. With over a decade of experience, Sarah is a leading expert on gaslighting, known for making this complex and nuanced topic understandable and actionable.
Her journey into this work began with personal experience—navigating betrayal trauma and discovering the profound impact of gaslighting in relationships. Through her work with APSATS, national conferences, and podcasts, Sarah has established herself as a thought leader in the field, dedicated to helping individuals reclaim their identity, autonomy, and self-trust. Sarah’s signature approach to gaslighting recovery is built on years of research, coaching, and hands-on experience. Her Deconstructing Gaslighting® offerings, including webinars, courses, and a podcast, empower individuals to identify, understand, and heal from gaslighting. Passionate about transformation, Sarah continues to develop cutting-edge programs that equip people to know, trust, and love themselves in ways they never thought possible.
SUBJECT: GASLIGHTING UNRAVELED - FROM CONFUSION AND SELF-DOUBT TO CLARITY AND EMPOWERMENT
Many people have given different thoughts, definitions, and approaches to addressing gaslighting over the past 80 years. All those differences add to confusion, fear, and disempowerment to those dealing with gaslighting in their relationships. When one has experienced prolonged/chronic gaslighting, it eats away at your ability to trust in yourself, and these ambiguous definitions of gaslighting have left people guessing as to when they are experiencing gaslighting. This not only opens the door for self-doubt, it swings that door wide-open. Enter the Deconstructing Gaslighting® methodology, which can be summed up in the phrase: “When you can see the patterns, you can break the patterns.” Sarah Morales will share the pattern-based definition of gaslighting, explain the components involved in a gaslighting experience, and explore how this knowledge fosters agency and restores self-trust. She will guide attendees through a common betrayal trauma gaslighting scenario, deconstructing it using a flowchart and sharing practical interventions to break the pattern. Participants will also gain insight into The Gaslighting Scale—a tool designed to reduce fear and de-stigmatize the gaslighter—while discussing the importance of intent vs. impact and the role of self-responsibility in boundary setting. By the end of this session, attendees will have a clear, structured approach to identifying gaslighting patterns, helping them move from confusion and self-doubt to clarity and empowerment on their healing journey.
LCMHC, CSAT, CMAT, Author
Mike Vaughn, Executive Director of Bethesda Workshops, is a seasoned therapist and business leader with over 20 years of experience specializing in sex addiction recovery, intensive therapy, marriage therapy, and trauma. As the co-founder of SureHope Counseling & Training Center, a large outpatient group practice in Charlotte, NC, Mike has dedicated his career to providing expert care and advancing the field of addiction and trauma therapy. His journey with Bethesda Workshops began in 2017 as a small group therapist, where his passion for healing and leadership led him into a key leadership role before stepping into his current position as Executive Director.
A sought-after national speaker, podcast co-host, and guest expert, Mike has made over 100 television appearances, sharing insights on addiction recovery, relational healing, and the power of intensive therapy. He is also the author of an ebook designed to equip therapists in providing effective intensive therapy. With a heart for guiding individuals and couples toward restoration, Mike continues to shape the conversation on healing, recovery, and personal transformation.
LPC-MH, LMHC, CSAT-C, Author
Jason is a nationally recognized therapist, speaker, and author specializing in relationships, attachment, and addiction. With over a decade of experience, Jason has helped countless individuals and couples navigate betrayal, infidelity, and trauma. His career began in the hospital system, conducting psychiatric intake assessments before founding Solomon Recovery, a private practice dedicated to supporting those struggling with relational and sexual trauma. He later co-founded Resolution Treatment Services, focusing on forensic evaluations and outpatient treatment.
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Jason provides expert guidance to businesses, churches, and organizations on program development, intimacy, sexuality, and healing from sexual trauma. A sought-after voice in the field, Jason has been featured on top national news outlets, spoken on major stages, and is the author of Get Past Your Past (Zondervan, 2023). His work is driven by the belief that healing and transformation are possible for everyone, and he is committed to helping people reclaim their lives and relationships with clarity and confidence.
SUBJECT: HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE AND PROBLEMATIC PORN USE: A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON EMOTIONAL REGULATION AND RECOVERY
Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) experience deep emotional intensity and heightened sensory awareness, making them particularly vulnerable to overstimulation. It is estimated that HSP's make up 20% of the world’s population. Mike and Jason explore the correlation between the personality trait of high sensitivity and problematic porn use as a means of emotional regulation, escape, and control. We present a new perspective that acknowledges the neurological, psychological and spiritual underpinnings of Highly Sensitive Problematic Porn Use (HSPU). We offer a recovery model tailored specifically to HSPs, emphasizing awareness of HSP traits, self-compassion, emotional regulation, and practical healing strategies for individuals and couples. Ultimately, this presentation will reframes sensitivity as a strength, guiding HSPs toward lasting freedom, deeper connection, and a thriving, balanced life.
LISAC, CSAT-S, CMAT, RAE, Author
Ria is the Clinical Supervisor at Rise Up Recover, LLC, where she provides workshops and counseling services for individuals struggling with addiction, trauma, and mental health challenges. With a deep commitment to holistic healing, Ria works with a diverse range of clients facing PTSD, depression, anxiety, sex and love addiction, betrayal trauma, intimacy issues, process addictions, grief, and more. She integrates family of origin work, spirituality, and mental and physical health to create a comprehensive, client-centered approach to recovery.An eclectic practitioner, Ria utilizes Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Somatic Experiencing (SE), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT), Post Induction Therapy (PIT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) to meet clients where they are and provide a safe space for healing.
Before founding Rise Up Recover, Ria served as Clinical Director for PHP, residential treatment, IOP, and detox programs, working with a broad spectrum of clients, including first responders, medical professionals, CEOs, artists, ex-gang members, and military personnel. She is an Arizona Board Certified Clinical Supervisor, Rainbow Educator, and a dedicated advocate for the LGBTQ+ community. Ria’s passion for education and advocacy extends beyond therapy—she collaborates as a consultant and educator with various organizations, including Ethical Narrative, where she merges documentary film with experiential processing to create deeper, transformative experiences. She is also the author of the award-winning workbook, Happiness is an Inside Job Playbook, published by Balboa Press.
SUBJECT: COMING SOON
Get ready for an insightful and transformative experience with Ria Flanagan! With her deep expertise in addiction, trauma, and mental health, Ria brings a unique, holistic approach to healing that integrates cutting-edge therapeutic modalities like EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. She also brings years of experience working with individuals facing addiction, trauma, and mental health challenges, using a diverse range of therapeutic modalities. Her session promises to offer fresh insights, innovative strategies, and practical tools for those navigating complex emotional and relational landscapes. Whether you're a professional or someone seeking personal growth, Ria’s presentation will inspire and empower you on your journey.
Stay tuned for more details on what promises to be an enlightening and transformative session!
Doctoral Candidate, NCMHCE, CSAT-C
Blair Bisher is a dynamic leader in the fields of mental health, addiction recovery, and healthcare innovation. Currently a doctoral candidate pursuing his Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, Blair’s research focuses on resilience and sustainable sexual integrity. He is a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) candidate and holds two master’s degrees in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Health Administration. Additionally, he has passed the National Clinical Mental Health Counselor Exam (NCMHCE) and serves as a professor at two universities in Boston. Blair’s extensive professional background spans both clinical and executive leadership roles. He has served as Director of General Medicine at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, a Harvard Teaching Hospital, overseeing multiple departments, including Internal Medicine, Palliative Care, and Hospital Medicine, as well as managing a research division with $50 million in NIH funding. As Chief Operating Officer at Sturdy Health, he was responsible for a 60,000-patient panel, and he also played a key role in launching Amazon Health as a Senior Program Manager.
Today, Blair leads a thriving private practice and serves as Founder and CEO of eTherapyCare, a virtual therapy platform dedicated to reducing therapist burnout and expanding access to high-quality mental healthcare. The platform is currently live in 20 states. An experienced national speaker, Blair has presented on topics such as alternative payment contracts, optimizing capacity utilization, and volume-to-value conversion in population health models. Blair is a former advisory board member at Harvard Medical School’s Center for Primary Care, a certified Project Management Professional (PMP), and an active member of both the American Counseling Association and the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals. His multidisciplinary expertise allows him to bridge the gap between clinical practice, healthcare management, and mental health advocacy, making a meaningful impact on the future of therapy and addiction recovery.
SUBJECT: FROM ARTIFICIAL TO AUTHENTIC CONNECTION—A VALIDATING FRAMEWORK TO HELP MEN ACHIEVE AUTHENTIC INTIMACY SAFELY
As AI-driven companionship explodes in popularity, predominantly younger men are increasingly turning to artificial intimacy to find hints of intimacy and connection while avoiding risk of rejection and emotional dysregulation. In this “safe space” they are successfully bypassing the risk-filled complexities of true human connection. But what happens when "safe" intimacy devolves into avoidance, escapism and loneliness? This session explores the psychological impact of AI companions through the lens of the neurochemical response, underlying attachment theory, and providing a validating framework to help these men achieve authentic intimacy through a path of self-expertise. We’ll dive into the intersection of attachment wounds, emotional avoidance, and self-efficacy, offering clear tools to help men. By addressing the deeper emotional needs driving this phenomenon, we can guide men toward genuine intimacy—where safety is found not in control, but in awareness, insight safe vulnerability.
Doctoral Candidate, LMFT, CSAT, CCPS
Julia Alperovich is a dynamic and sought-after therapist, speaker, and educator with nearly two decades of experience specializing in intimacy, sexuality, and addiction recovery. She is passionate about helping individuals and couples break free from patterns of dysfunction and reclaim authentic, fulfilling relationships. With a background in clinical psychology and marriage and family therapy, Julia brings a deep understanding of the neurophysiology of addiction, betrayal trauma, and the complexities of human connection. She is currently completing her doctorate in Clinical Sexology, with a focus on sexual addictions and healthy sexual practices. As an advocate for progressive and inclusive approaches to sexuality and healing, she offers a sex-positive perspective while integrating proven addiction and trauma treatment models.
Julia’s direct yet compassionate style is what sets her apart—she cuts through confusion with clarity, helping her clients gain powerful insights into their struggles while equipping them with practical tools for transformation. Her approach is both structured and deeply personal, balancing firm guidance with genuine warmth and empathy. Beyond her clinical work, Julia is a published author, podcast host, and nationally recognized speaker. She actively contributes to research and professional organizations, staying on the cutting edge of treatment innovations. A dedicated ally of the LGBTQ+ community and an advocate for diverse expressions of intimacy and connection, she creates a safe space for honest conversations about sex, relationships, and healing.
SUBJECT: USING STRUCTURAL FAMILY THERAPY IN WORKING WITH COUPLES IN RECOVERY
Structural Family Therapy (SFT) offers a powerful approach for helping couples in recovery rebuild relational safety, improve communication, and establish healthier relationship dynamics. With its focus on boundary setting and restructuring interactions, SFT provides clinicians with concrete tools to support couples as they navigate recovery. In this clinician-focused session Julia will explore key SFT interventions such as confrontation, enactment, and restructuring. Through discussion and experiential exercises, participants will learn how and when to apply these interventions effectively to help couples shift unhealthy patterns, strengthen their connection, and create a more stable foundation for their relationship. Attendees will leave with a deeper understanding of how Structural Family Therapy can be integrated into their clinical work, along with practical skills to guide couples and families toward lasting change in recovery.